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Recent relationship questions and answers from Dr. Roland Trujillo.

Please note: the questions have been shortened and the answers have been shortened. These are just snippets. For the longer answers, read Roland's relationships books and visit his relationships blog.

Q. We argue all the time.

A. Arguing is going to happen in relationships. As long as it is not violent or abusive, arguing can be done in the right way--arguing about what is right, not who is right. When we argue properly, what is right wins.

Q. My boyfriend wants to live together

A. Not a good idea. The research shows that marriages that begin with living together are more brittle. But more importantly, because of human nature, which began in the Garden of Eden, there are just so many good reasons for waiting until marriage. Here's a post on the subject of dating vs. courtship

Q. We are living together, and my girl friend wants to get married. Does it make a difference?

A. It makes a big difference. If you don't marry her, she will not respect you.

Q. What is a husband's role?

A. To learn to be unselfish and to become more fatherly. As the years pass, he becomes wise, noble, steadfast, courageous, and kinder. Along the way, he gently corrects naughtiness, and in the process also corrects his own selfishness and weaknesses. He outgrows his selfishness and stands as a contrast to the world.

Q. Can a husband have any little vices, like smoking cigarettes, smoking marijuana, playing the lottery, gambling on football games, or going to casinos.

A. No.

Q. Should I ask my wife for forgiveness.

A. No. Ask God for forgiveness. With people, apologize and say you are sorry and then go about your business. Asking for forgiveness from others is tempting them to play God, Not good.



    

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