FAQs
Some questions and Pastor Roland's answers.
Q. My prayer life is not so good. I don't know if God is hearing me. I pray but nothing seems to happen. What should I do?
A. Keep praying. Try my prayer meditation which is designed to help people get closer to God. It is free.
Q. My husband irritates me. What should I do?
A. Watch our for resentment. Try the easy meditation, which helps people get out of negative thoughts and feelings. Q. I'm facing a big decision about work and where to live. I'm having a hard time making a decision. I want to do what is right, but don't know what it is. What should I do?
A. Keep it as a question to wonder about. Don't decide to decide. Just wonder until it becomes clear or the questions answer themselves. Pray. Start practicing the easy meditation, as it helps clear the mind and clears away doubts and fears.
Q. What do people need the most help with?
A. In a word - Anger.
Q. I am angry all the time. What should I do?
A. Learn to control it and let it go. Here's the secret, watch out for resentment. Let go of the resentment and the anger will follow. Get my easy meditation and begin practicing it every day - especially first thing in the morning.
Q. After 25 years of counseling and coaching, what would you say is people's biggest error?
A. Resentment. Becoming resentful.
Q. What is your most popular book?
A. The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage: Making Relationships Work
Q. What church do you belong to?
A. I am a nondenominational pastor.
Q. I notice you talk a lot about meditation. Why is that?
A. I see that people are upset all the time. I also see that people are lost between their ears. It is obvious to me that people need to calm down , get out of worries doubts and fears, and become centered in order to hear sound instruction and realize solutions to their issues.
Another thing. Most people have some sort of relationships issues--with their partner, kids, parents, or other people. They are upset and angry, or they are resentful. Again, the meditation might help them calm down.
Finally, many people want help finding God and they want help with praying. You can't study your way to God. You won't find God down in your imagination. The meditation helps people get out of thinking and worry and find a more centered state, where they can pray.
They need a more prayerful state of mind. That's where the meditation can help.
Q. I need a change of direction in my life. I had some questions but you haven't been there at free chat. What should I do?
A. Watch some of my Talk to a Pastor TV videos. I answer many questions and talk about changing for the better.
Here--I made a list that might help you find the best videos for you.
Here is a list of Talk to a Pastor Video Playlists
Talk to a Pastor Video Shorts
Relationships Challenges, Finding God, Finding Forgiveness, Becoming a Better Parent, Solving Stress, Salvation, Love, Prayer. Spiritual Answers in less than 5 minutes each.
Meditation Playlists
The Easy Meditation for Everyone
The Simple Practice of Meditation to Overcome Stress
Pastor Roland's Christian Prayer Meditation
Positive Well Being
Life, Love, and Success
All About Forgiveness
Overcoming Anger
Understanding Anxiety and How Meditation Might Help
Relationships and Marriage
Putting the Forever Back in Love,
a 3 Part Series on Healing Relationships
Healing Your Relationship
All About Forgiveness
Overcoming Anger
Men's Issues
Christianity
How to Become a Christian
The Most Important Verses in the Bible
All About Prayer
Christian Meditation and Christian Mystics
Well Being and Moving Forward
Speaking Up for Yourself
All About Forgiveness
Overcoming Anger
The Spiritual Side of Health
Food Issues
Understanding and Resolving Spiritual and Emotional Trauma
Blessings,
Pastor Roland
